Reared by a Father and a Mother
Posted by david on February 17th, 2008“Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity.”
-“The Family: A Proclamation to the World”
While we don’t need to see scientific proof to know a gospel principle is true, such evidence is instructive and can strengthen one’s testimony of that principle. Scientific evidence was recently published that supports principles declared in “The Family: A Proclamation to the World.” The headline of a recent scientific news article reads:
“Children who have an active father figure have fewer psychological and behavioral problems”
While there are many reasons, both temporal and spiritual, why children need fathers, this article reviews a number of studies on the effect of fathering on childhood development and identifies several specific benefits children tend to experience when they have an active father in their life.
Swedish researchers reviewed 24 papers that covered 16 studies published between 1987 and 2007. These studies included smaller research from Israel and Sweden as well as large ongoing studies in the UK and USA. Findings include the following:
- “Children who had positively involved father figures were less likely to smoke and get into trouble with the police, achieved better levels of education and developed good friendships with children of both sexes.“
- “Women who had better relationships with partners and a greater sense of mental and physical well-being at the age of 33 if they had a good relationship with their father at 16.“
- “Children who lived with both a mother and father figure had less behavioural problems than those who lived with just their mother.“
One of the reviewers concludes, “our review backs up the intuitive assumption that engaged biological fathers or father figures are good for children, especially when the children are socially or economically disadvantaged.”
These findings appear to support the prophetic warning “that the disintegration of the family will bring upon individuals, communities, and nations the calamities foretold by ancient and modern prophets.”





David:
Nice to hear from you again. Thanks for passing this information along.
Comment # 1 left by Eric Nielson on February 17th, 2008
Yes, it’s been a while. Until recently, I was so busy following the Romney campaign, researching election issues, and occasionally blogging on political topics that I haven’t taken time to ponder and write on more eternal issues. Plus today was Stake Conference, so I didn’t have the normal 2-3 meetings outside of the 3-hour block.
Comment # 2 left by david on February 17th, 2008
Good post. I believe the lack of involved fathers to be the greatest threat to the survival of the west. I know it sounds cheesy, but there it is.
Romney was my fave too–and the only one, in fact, who had the guts to talk about getting fathers back in the home.
Comment # 3 left by Jack on February 17th, 2008
While holding a CTR (”current temple recommend”) and maintaining friendships with multiple gays and gay couples, this is a no-no topic…for every argument demonstrated through meta-studies, my “2-dad” and “2-mom” couples will cite references finding support for same sex parenting…my job is not to judge, it’s to love…and I do…I can speak my mind in the voting booth without getting into a knock-down-drag-out fight with my friends…even tho I could take them…some are real sissies ;P
Comment # 4 left by deb katz on February 24th, 2008
Good information. Thanks for the post.
Comment # 5 left by Stan Way on March 29th, 2008